it's been a month

and so much has happened...chocolahontas had to run for her life with the clothes on her back...but bad things happen for good reasons...she's in a shelter in a secure undisclosed location (i don't even know where she is) and she's good...learning things that she had a hard time grasping...spending lots and lots of quality time with her son...for the first time ever...
MMB is growing into a wonderful young lady...she's kind of in the rebellious stage but in comparison to most i can't complain...
the job ended...ugh...i won't even go into that...i'm on a mini paid vacation but hopefully my new job will start in the next week or two...
my bear...he's growing to like me as much as i like him...and i like him lots...he's the first that ive really gotten to know before i "claimed" him...i'm not pretending to like him and i don't have to make him into what i want him to be...he is...yes he has his issues, as do i, and can sometimes be annoying with the little things...but it's nothing that i would want to leave him for...i can see myself with him for a very long time...