tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post6836682426046261794..comments2023-08-21T07:43:09.427-04:00Comments on THIS IS MY LIFE...LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT: I'm still in bitch mode...professorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11899000155217475130noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-44614722908156707592008-06-10T09:00:00.000-04:002008-06-10T09:00:00.000-04:00The thing is though, like Fat Lady said, folks who...The thing is though, like Fat Lady said, folks who dress like that LIKE to dress like that. I also don't particularly care to though every so often I'll let the girls get some air. And I daresay that most folks don't dress like that... that's why the few that do stand out so. I kind of admire them, to tell the truth... and it's made me worry less about the parts of me I'm not all that happy with... cuz my parts on a bad day are still in better shape than their parts on ANY day... so if they can flaunt them shamelessly, why shouldn't I?<BR/><BR/>But I gotta say... I don't always like the attention I get when I do... so there you go.<BR/><BR/>Plus, where we were is not exactly the classiest hangout spot on the block (one of the reasons it's not my favorite--the outdoor bar attracts the lowbudget zippy bike crowd) so the folks that were there that day were specifically there for "show and tell".<BR/><BR/>As for the man that will accept me (and you) for who (and what) we are...<BR/><BR/>I'm sick of people telling me he'll find me. I seriously don't think he exists and so I'm just gonna do what I have to do for me and my kid...The Bear Maidenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219416611385201896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-48719834675323794482008-06-09T20:52:00.000-04:002008-06-09T20:52:00.000-04:00Sorry about your mood. It can only get better rig...Sorry about your mood. It can only get better right?<BR/><BR/>I love the comments above. Sometimes I feel like a prude walking through a mall. Seems like I am the only one not advertising my ASSets.<BR/><BR/><I>btw, i've added you to my blog roll</I>Sista GPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06782105568336804901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-41452546302601733252008-06-09T15:58:00.000-04:002008-06-09T15:58:00.000-04:00woman dont give yourself HBPand u wory about mewoman dont give yourself HBP<BR/><BR/>and u wory about meAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-49645706988946179482008-06-09T15:40:00.000-04:002008-06-09T15:40:00.000-04:00I'm so glad to know that there are folks who agree...I'm so glad to know that there are folks who agree with me...some of the woman looked so uncomfortable tugging at their clothes or with a plastic smile...professorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11899000155217475130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-63449245945708010762008-06-09T15:06:00.000-04:002008-06-09T15:06:00.000-04:00Chiming in to agree with the above. I have never w...Chiming in to agree with the above. I have never worn the "show off my assets" things. I have clothes that make me feel good, but are not "video vixen" wardrobe in the least.<BR/><BR/>I figure if a man wants to get to know me, than I want him to get the know the real me, and not some front I put on to get his attention.KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-86637007485472327022008-06-09T12:22:00.000-04:002008-06-09T12:22:00.000-04:00Hey I am with the Fat Lady on this! I know this i...Hey I am with the Fat Lady on this! I know this is hard. But you know at the end of the day you still have to be who YOU are! I am convinced there is a Grown Man out there who will appreciate me and what I have to offer.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for coming by and leaving a comment.Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4556459739170516605.post-68003681284178638872008-06-09T11:21:00.000-04:002008-06-09T11:21:00.000-04:00I have to comment so you know I'm still listening ...I have to comment so you know I'm still listening - and I am listening; I get all happy every time I see look through my Google Reader and see you have a new post up.<BR/><BR/>I'm mostly going to leave 1 through 5 alone except to say that if you know how people are then it's on you if you get annoyed when they do what they always do. You know what it's going to be - so don't even let it bother you. That goes for everyone you mentioned in 1-5.<BR/><BR/>As for number 6. Well, you know me, I barely put any effort into my appearance. And, certainly, I need to fix that at least a little - but for me, not for anyone else.<BR/><BR/>But here's the thing, I think you HAVE to be you. I think half the women who dress like that do it as much for themselves as they do for the men they're trying to attract. Dressing like that is what makes them feel pretty and desirable. Yes, it's a warped perception - but it's what they feel good about. And they will attract the kind of man who is attracted to a woman who feels good about herself when she looks like that.<BR/><BR/>You have to dress the way that makes you feel good about yourself because you want a man who is attracted to the real you. What good is having a man if he wants you to be something other than yourself? <BR/><BR/>That's why I never understand all these "rules" women. If you're going to walk around acting different and dressing different from who you are to get a man - then you wind up with a man who wants something different. What are you going to do with that? Marry it? For what? So that you have to maintain a persona that's not you for the rest of your life? Why!<BR/><BR/>You and bear maiden are more yourselves, more confident and comfortable with who you are than almost anyone I know. And THAT'S what's going to attract the men you need. The problem isn't with you or how you dress. The problem is that there are very few men who are worth your time. And you don't really want to be bothered with the sub-standard ones.<BR/><BR/>So go on, do you, and when the man who's worth it pops up - you'll know him and he'll want the real you.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15861692671737212444noreply@blogger.com